We all know the basic signs of attraction.
Different personality types will behave very differently when they are attracted or feeling aroused. And no two people are the same. But one thing is for sure, their behaviour will be quite different to usual.
The more they try to hide or disguise it, the worse it gets. And the pent up energy leads to feelings that can go out of control.
Watch for the subtle signs such as breathing shallow, or breathing deeply. And general body language, turning or leaning in. They also may not take their eyes away for long.
Your eyes are the window to your soul. Where our attention is focused the most, is where it’s at.
Open body language. Men will like to hug, whereas women, they may like to chat, giggle, and be playful. Women and men like to tease. There’s no need to be serious, or take things deeply.
Dating is a game. But sometimes people may get the signs wrong. They will read more into the situation than what really is. Males tend to do this quite a lot. Particularly when they are actively trying to court a woman, when they have her attention. But it could just be a friendship in their eyes.
Similarly a female might read too much into a friendship, or a fling. They may not be very realistic. And it may take some time for them to realise that they are fair game in most men’s eyes. Some young women can be quite naive at times.
When people’s body language, breathing, or conversational tone, slang, match, then you know it’s a match. It doesn’t take a genius, or get much simpler than that. If she starts to mimic you, or with micro expressions, she’s definitely into you.
As for males. They will usually act cool, disinterested, puff their chest out, make larger gestures, and speak to other people. Then they will watch closely from their peripheral view. Men get quite physical quite quickly. They may be more hands on, bolshy, or just seem extra chatty. Guys are usually reading many details, and coming up with a masterplan to make their move!
