Different personality types will behave very differently when they are attracted or feeling aroused. And no two people are the same. But one thing is for sure, their behaviour will be quite different to usual.
The more they try to hide or disguise it, the worse it gets. And the pent up energy leads to feelings that can soon go out of control. As the passion is ignited, the feelings will soon become clear. Even if two friends share an attraction, the vibe is always there.
Watch for the subtle signs such as breathing shallow, or breathing deeply. And general body language, turning or leaning in. They also may not take their eyes away for long. Watch for the way they are moving too.
Your eyes are the window to your soul. Where our attention is focused the most, is where it’s at. Sometimes people pretend not to look. Women tend to look directly or glance. Men have excellent peripheral view, or are likely to move around and view from afar.
Open body language. Men will like to hug, hello and goodbye, whereas women, they may like to chat, giggle, and be playful. Women and men both like to tease. There’s no need to be serious, or take things deeply. Sometimes people think it’s flirting when it’s not. So you must be very clear.
Dating is a game. But sometimes people may get the signs wrong. They will read more into the situation than what really is. Males tend to do this quite a lot. Particularly when they are actively trying to court a woman, when they have her attention. But it could just be a friendship in their eyes.
Similarly a female might read too much into a friendship, or a fling. They may not be very realistic. Or the other person may be using flattery, and not being 100% truthful. And it may take some time for them to realise that they are fair game. Chatty and flirtatious people chat to dozens, or hundreds of people. It makes them feel good about themselves, an ego boost.
When people’s body language, breathing, or conversational tone, slang, match, then you know it’s a match. It doesn’t take a genius, or get much simpler than that. If she starts to mimic you, or respond with micro expressions, she’s definitely into you.
As for males. They will usually act cool, disinterested, puff their chest out, make larger gestures, and speak to other people. But they will gravitate back to the main attraction. Men get quite physical quite quickly. They love to take the lead, but also watch and analyse where things will go.
Distinguishing the friendship and the level of relationship can be tricky. But if people like you they will definitely let you know. You’ll both have a feeling of chemistry, and belonging. And when you feel this, and a mutual physical attraction, things can really heat up. The longer you wait, the longer the relationship will last. And it’s always worth waiting. If it’s only friendship, then that’s where you should keep it. Until you both desire to change it.
The main signs of attraction are dilated pupils, shyness or nervousness, smiling and grinning, playing with hair, fuller lips, open arms & body language.
If you are already friends and are unsure about where things may be headed, the best thing to do is have an honest conversation with the friend. Usually you will know if they are attracted to you. They will make their feelings known.
